Hello and welcome to the Fairfax Cryobank Family Forum!
The forum has a new look and the Fairfax Team is so excited to create the best experience for our users.
To Note:
Private Donor Groups and Private Sibling Connection Groups are now located under the category "Groups". Search the donor number in the search box and you should find exactly what you're looking for!
Questions about your forum access? Email forum@fairfaxcryobank.com
Follow these steps to join a private donor group:
1) Press "Join" at the right of the group
2) Once prompted to confirm your request please list this information so we can verify your information:
Name (under which the vial was purchased)
Email
Clinic Name
Donor number
Child Date of Birth
*If you are looking to start a private group for a PRS donor please email forum@fairfaxcryobank.com with the above information and that you are looking for a PRS group*
If you have any questions about the verification process please email forum@fairfaxcryobank.com
The forum has a new look and the Fairfax Team is so excited to create the best experience for our users.
To Note:
Private Donor Groups and Private Sibling Connection Groups are now located under the category "Groups". Search the donor number in the search box and you should find exactly what you're looking for!
Questions about your forum access? Email forum@fairfaxcryobank.com
Follow these steps to join a private donor group:
1) Press "Join" at the right of the group
2) Once prompted to confirm your request please list this information so we can verify your information:
Name (under which the vial was purchased)
Clinic Name
Donor number
Child Date of Birth
*If you are looking to start a private group for a PRS donor please email forum@fairfaxcryobank.com with the above information and that you are looking for a PRS group*
If you have any questions about the verification process please email forum@fairfaxcryobank.com
Embryo Adoption/Donation vs. DE/DS
Stacey Sailing
Junior Member Junior Member
Hi. I've gone through 5 IVFs and 2 IUI'S and am now considering embryo adoption/donation or DE/DS (my eggs are too mature). I'm extremely happy with my Fairfax donor 4120 and have enough vials for DE. Has anyone else gone through this struggle as a SMC? Ideally would love to "adopt" an embryo with 4120 but I'm not sure if that's even possible......
Comments
I was in a similar position last year. I had done 4 IUI's, and one IVF with my own eggs. I had a chemical pregnancy from the last one, which made me want to try again, but I was out of money. So, I went to Mexico, to Fertility Center Cancun, and did one more IVF with my own eggs and PGD, and simultaneously did one with an egg donor. I shipped my sperm from Fairfax down there, because I had spent so much time picking my donors over those three years, and was really happy about the "my kid can contact them when they turn 18" part. You can't do that in Mexico.
My own didn't work out, but I have two embryos waiting for me from the egg donor. My plan is to use one of them this summer and see what happens! At this point, I'm in the process of shipping both the embryos and the leftover vial of sperm back to the US, so that I can do the FET here. Cancun was fun, and sooooo much cheaper than the US; but it also meant lots of time in Mexico. I was OK with that last summer, but I really want to spend as much of this summer as I can in my home town.
Anyway, my advice to you is: Do it!! Find an egg donor and use the sperm you're already happy with. If you can afford it in the US, more power to you. If not, Cancun has two well-known clinics (FCC and Irega) across the street from each other, that have high success rates and lots of local egg donors to choose from. (And they have women of many different ethnicities.)
Good luck!