Donor 4538

MamaMonkey

I'm new to this forum. I currently have a beautiful 7.5 month old son from donor 4538. I'm a single mom, and among the other concerns I have about explaining to him eventually about who his daddy is, I am also worried that if something ever happened to me that he would feel and be alone. I'm wondering others on here have had children from donor 4538 and if there's any precedent for half siblings to know about each other? It's all new to me. I'm 40 years old now and am just trying to get any info for my son thay I can.

D-rizzy

jess1374

I have a beautiful 19 month old son from donor 4455. I plan to tell my son that mommy could never find someone to love mommy and be a daddy. That mommy was hoping to find somebody but that I was meant to have him because I have so much love and want a baby so much that I was meant to have him and give him love and be there for him. I hope this helped some.

MamaMonkey

Thank you so much for your message. I sent you a private message in reply. I look forward to learning more about you and your precious little girl. :-)

A&DHarter

My wife and I are planning on writing a book to explain to kids about having a donor instead of a dad because there are limited resources out there right now. Although our situation will be a bit different we want it to be all inclusive for gay, straight couples as well as single moms. It is very important that our future children feel strongly about their identity and that we give them the information that is needed so that they don't think that it is shameful or that we are keeping secrets. We are just starting this whole process but forums like this help to generate ideas for those individuals who will walk this same path in the future.

tamiliora