Not connecting with any available donors? And a few more questions.

kdkm
kdkm Junior Member Junior Member
Has anyone else had issues connecting with any donors? I am a single mom, so its all on me. I am not sure why I am having such a hard time. I am wondering if I should expand my search. My main criteria is under 6', under 29 years old, and no history of mentall illness or lots of major health concerns.

Also, has anyone chosen a donor of a different ethnic background? I am white and have been solely looking for white donors but I am wondering if I should expand that? I have read that its not ideal but I was wondering if anyone has any first hand experience with this.

Lastly, how do you feel about choosing a donor that has no previously reported pregnancies? Is that a big deal to you?

Thanks!

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  • SpringBabyMarch14
    SpringBabyMarch14 Junior Member Junior Member
    Hello! I have three babies from donor 4067. He's 5'10 and was 27 at the time of his donation, no mental illness or major health concerns. I have two vials left from his donation (ICI prep) that I am looking to sell if you're interested. I have his full profile from Fairfax (medical, personal, lifetime pictures, etc.) that I could give you as well.

    I know you're asking if anyone has had a hard time connecting with a donor - honestly, it is difficult with nothing to go by but the profiles provided since you'll never have a chance to talk to them in person prior to conceiving a child. Shoot me a PM if you want to talk about it. I have a lot to say about the subject but don't really want to spill on a public forum.