Can someone help me in choosing a donor?

amyhensley007

This whole process has been so confusing! Every time I think I have selected a donor, they either run out of vials or become inactive - ugh!
I am almost 42, only have one shot at this.
I would LOVE to have twins:)
I need a girl or girls! I have older boys only (4 of them), and while I love them and they are the BEST, I do want to have a daughter to love before I am too old :shock:
My insurance company previously told me I have unlimited IVF, and my doctor's billing office confirmed this. Now, however, they insist it is only once/lifetime shot. I only have about $10,000 saved up for the procedure, so I desperately hope my first attempt is successful.
Any suggestions from those who previously had girl(s) with a donor that is still active? I'm not too particular anymore about hair/eye color - although blonde or light brown with brown eyes would be my first preference).
Thanks in advance for any help in this very important decision!
Amy