Anonymous Donor

cosmosmomma

What is Fairfax's policy on the donor being allowed to change his status from anonymous to Fairfax ID option post-birth? For example, if the donor originally is registered as anonymous, but changes his mind and agrees to be identified when the offspring turns 18 will I (the donor recipient) be notified of this option?

Fairfax Cryobank

Unfortunately our donors are not allowed to change their status from anonymous to ID option once they are in the program. So if you purchased vials from an anonymous donor, he will remain so.

clma23

I inquired the same thing and was given the same answer. I hope that one day Fairfax will change this policy if enough families with anonymous donors inquire. My suggestion to Fairfax is to ask the donor if they would like to change their status. If they decline simply post that on their profile. If they do change their minds and say yes then charge each recipient an additional fee to gain access to that option. I see this as a win/win situation for all parties involved.

ajanm

zahava1980

That is why I choose donor 2750 because he is an open ID donor. I would want my children to have the option to contact him in the future if they want or even needed to. I'm curious what made you choose an anonymous donor?

heidibee

I was thinking of registering on the Donor Sibling site incase the donor ever changed his mind or if I could find other half siblings. Since the there is little possibility of ever knowing the donor, my son may take comfort in knowing a half sibling some day. Of course I hope to give him a full sibling, I just don't have many chances left with this donor.

jackiew00021

The Fairfax Family Forum actually has a place to find half siblings! They verify all your information before allowing you to post there as well so you know it's legit! I have already found 2 of my sons half siblings!!! I couldn't be more excited!!