Donor 2543

Hello,

Our daughter was born 14 moths ago thanks to Donor 2543 on the third try without meds. I was 38 but already had a son.
As I'm looking at the donor's childhood pic I am noticing how much she looks like him. I'm worried that if she looks like him a lot when she will be old enough for me to show her his pic, she'll want to somehow contact him - though he's anonymous. I so hate thinking about that...Anyone with same worries? Also, "The Kids are Alright" didn't alleviate any of this fear! Good luck to all who are trying. Don't give up hope!!!

Comments

  • Leanne42881
    Leanne42881 Junior Member
    I heard about that movie - it's rubbish. Don't worry about her asking about the donor - you have all the info she could want, really - medical, etc. She has a family, and she has love. She could be curious, sure, but it's her family that she loves, and that's you, not some guy who just helped out with getting started.
  • manda210
    manda210 Member Member
    We are considering using him for our 3rd try....we have decided to switch donors...is his baby pic cute?? Im sure your baby is cute =) We plan on buying his baby pic soon
  • Angel&Deb
    Angel&Deb Junior Member Junior Member
    We found out today we are pregnant from this donor. This was our first medicated IUI cycle. We have no fertility issues. We thought his childhood photo was cute and his sperm count was 17 million. We'll post again when we find out the gender of the child.
  • acebofamily
    acebofamily Junior Member
    Of course our children will ask; moreover, the more we are afraid of this or uncomfortable with it, the more confusing and alluring it will be for them. None of us should feel ashamed of how we went about conceiving and creating a family. I am by all means expecting there will come a time when our son and daughter will gather together in their bedroom and look at pictures of our donor (1914) and fantasize about how amazing he is or how HE would understand what they are going through, or HE would let them go out to such and such place, etc. And I will let them. For my part, I went ahead and ordered every product under the sun that Fairfax offers in order for them to have if and when they decide to look through it all or listen to the interview or whatever. I also registered on the DSR and we are in contact with 4-5 other families with offspring from the same donor - we even had a "family" reunion two summers ago. It was really a beautiful week and we all had a great time.
  • Fortunefu38
    Fortunefu38 Junior Member Junior Member
    Hi there, Any chance to get in contact with you, as we have the same donor2543. not sure if any of you who has baby from this donor can see this, just want to get in contact with you,
    Thank
    Larren
  • tsg2c
    tsg2c Junior Member Junior Member
    We have two healthy, beautiful children with donor 2543. Our son is almost 7 and our daughter is 3. Our children look so much like him in his childhood photo! Would love to connect with other parents/children. We are a same sex couple in Los Angeles, though most of our family ties are on the east coast. We would LOVE to join in the next family reunion when/if it's held.
    Thanks,
    Tonya
  • twinsmommy25
    twinsmommy25 Junior Member Junior Member
    Hi everyone! I just found this forum. It's so nice to meet all of you! :) My husband and I are on the east coast. We have 6-year-old twins (b/g) from this donor. We would love to connect as well!
  • Smores
    Smores Junior Member Junior Member
    Hello everyone,

    My partner and I used donor 2543 and our son will be 8 this year. We are a same sex couple and live close to Portland, OR. We would like to connect as well.
  • lakennicole
    lakennicole Junior Member Junior Member
    Hello everyone!

    I'm so happy I found this thread. I have 8 year old twins from donor 2543 (b/g). They will be 9 years old Oct. 23rd. I am looking to connect with other families. I live in Louisville, KY. Please contact me if you are interested in connecting as well. Thank you!
  • Smores
    Smores Junior Member Junior Member
    I have signed up on Facebook Fairfax Cryobank Families site would like to connect with other families who used 2543
  • lakennicole
    lakennicole Junior Member Junior Member
    Hello. My name is Christine and I have twins by donor 2543. I would like to connect with other families that have used this donor. Thanks.