If they only knew...

hopefulchar
hopefulchar Senior Member Senior Member
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I just wish all the pregnant women who barely had to try would just realize how hard it is to sit through story after story about your Perfect pregnancy with your husband. I wish they knew that the friend they are starting at is using a sperm donor bc her husband doesn't have any sperm and she is scared to death that she will never get the pleasure of knowing what your feeling at that moment as you go on and on abou how excited you are. Sorry ladies I just had to vent. And I don't even have clinics to blame for this rant.
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  • maria2
    maria2 Senior Member Senior Member
    @hopefulchar - it's ok to vent....it is frustrating. it's funny how we have those moments....because i have those moments with the pregnancies...and also weddings (even the fact that you have a husband to share this with)....I'm a single (hopeful mom) using donor sperm....so yes, i understand. hopefully it'll happen to us all. good luck!
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  • Amirasmommy
    Amirasmommy Senior Member Senior Member
    Ditto Maria! The perfect little families all around me make me want to scream! But I try to be positive. After one huge failure of a marriage...I have one beautiful intelligent funny 4 year old daughter...but no prospects in the horizon...and I don't need to let my eggs expire waiting around for the dream of mr right so I'm going it solo. I'm excited and I just hope it goes smoothly and without too many tries. I currently have enough saved for one cycle with 2 inseminations. But it will take me about 3 months to save for a second cycle, and so on and so on. And of course my insurance wont pay a dime. So send some baby dust my way when the time comes. ;). Good luck to everyone!
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  • hopefulchar
    hopefulchar Senior Member Senior Member
    Ladies I'm so sorry, my rant was so uncalled for and insensitive of me. My emotions really got the best of me last night. I guess in life the grass sometimes seems greener on the other side right?!? I wish you both healthy babies and love and happiness in the future. You will find your happily ever after. Again so sorry That I upset you!
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  • Amirasmommy
    Amirasmommy Senior Member Senior Member
    Oh you didn't upset me. I was just putting in my 2 cents...lol. Good luck and hang in there!
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  • howdy
    howdy Member Member
    i feel like screaming too ladies. Believe me, 3 years TTC and this 2nd IUI. Not getting a good feeling about it. I know I have to stay positive but its just so darn hard!!! Why ussssssss?!?! And then it really doens't help that I check my FB and just today.. the pregnant ones are glowing and announcing their baby showers and counting down the arrival. Lord give us infertiles strength. It's hard but I know at the end it'll be worth it. I am so emotional right now, I am tearing up as I type. lol.. sorry for being a Debbie Downer!

    ahhhhh.. at least its Friday right??
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  • Misslissa30
    Misslissa30 Junior Member Junior Member
    Hi hear ya, I can't imagine what's like for several that have been TTC for more then a year, me its been under a year but its still hard. We will all get our day, we just need to hang in there and be patient.

    I am in the 2 ww now, hoping for good news.

    Melissa
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  • maria2
    maria2 Senior Member Senior Member
    @hopefulchar, not at all! This forum is a place for us to vent. I did not think you were being insensitive. I was doing a little venting myself. Its hard for ALL of us!
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  • hopefulchar
    hopefulchar Senior Member Senior Member
    Maria. I'm so glad. Hope your well
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