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Any advice on... dating??

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  • AmirasmommyAmirasmommy Senior Member Senior Member
    I can't speak for everyone but as for me I'm choosing this route because I want another child and Mr. Right is totally MIA and I can't wait around for him forever to maybe or maybe not show up. It's not because I don't want Mr. Right to show but he hasn't so in the mean time I'm taking life into my own hands without him. If you find someone you connect with thats awesome!! Here's what I would do....if you have a few months before your IUI. I would date him...if you're both interested...at least for a few weeks. Then if things feel like they have the potential to get more serious I would tell him about your fertility issues and your desire to have a child with or without a husband ASAP because of your limited window of opportunity. If he runs...he wasn't Mr. Right anyways so no big loss. If he doesn't run...maybe you've found him and won't need DS. But for right now, relax and don't over analyze it. I wouldn't tell him too soon because he might think...why is she telling me something so personal...Im just wanting to have a good time. But I also wouldn't wait too long if it does start feeling serious because omission of the truth to some people is like a lie. So in short...trust your instinct....you'll know when and if the time is right. GL and have fun dating!
  • GeminiJaiGeminiJai Senior Member Senior Member
  • AmirasmommyAmirasmommy Senior Member Senior Member
    No prob! That's what we're all here for. Good luck! And see if he has a hot brother for me...lol!
  • maria2maria2 Senior Member Senior Member
  • robinrobin Senior Member Senior Member
  • GeminiJaiGeminiJai Senior Member Senior Member
  • AmirasmommyAmirasmommy Senior Member Senior Member
    SMBC is an organization of just that...single mothers by choice but it's not connected to this forum in any way. But I don't think the "by choice" means that these women are opposed to The right man in their life but just that he hasn't come and they're not waiting...they're "choosing" to, at least for now, do it on their own. I really like that movie but I think that part of the plot was just for comedy and wasn't realistic at all. Im more like the J.Lo character and less of the water birth, au natural, who needs a man type depicted for comic relief in that film. So if you want to date...go for it! I hope you find you're Mr. Right and don't need a donor... ;). As for me, I'm starting to believe my Mr. Right doesn't exist so I'm not gonna wait around to find out. If he shows, great, if not, I'll live. GL!
  • GeminiJaiGeminiJai Senior Member Senior Member
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