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I'm turning 43, no mate, should I take the plunge?
LT22192
Junior Member Junior Member
Dear Readers,
This is my first blog about this, so I am reaching out. I had a miscarriage in 2007 and 2009, and I recently found out that I am heterozygous for the enzymes that metabolize folic acid. So, I've been taking all the right supplements. My egg count is high and all hormones are great, so the data suggests that I have ample eggs. The issue is that I am ending a relationship. At this age, I can't exactly go out searching for a soulmate and ask to become pregnant right off. Therefore, I am considering sperm donors. I believe that the stress has caused me to miss a cycle. I was averaging 29-30 days for about 9 months, then this month it's almost 6 weeks. I'm definitely not pregnant, 3 tests say no and no symptoms. I've decided to try and start meditations I found on you tube.
My question is this: Do I take the plunge and go for sperm donation? Can I afford to wait another 6 months?
Thank you so much,
Lille
This is my first blog about this, so I am reaching out. I had a miscarriage in 2007 and 2009, and I recently found out that I am heterozygous for the enzymes that metabolize folic acid. So, I've been taking all the right supplements. My egg count is high and all hormones are great, so the data suggests that I have ample eggs. The issue is that I am ending a relationship. At this age, I can't exactly go out searching for a soulmate and ask to become pregnant right off. Therefore, I am considering sperm donors. I believe that the stress has caused me to miss a cycle. I was averaging 29-30 days for about 9 months, then this month it's almost 6 weeks. I'm definitely not pregnant, 3 tests say no and no symptoms. I've decided to try and start meditations I found on you tube.
My question is this: Do I take the plunge and go for sperm donation? Can I afford to wait another 6 months?
Thank you so much,
Lille
Comments
Have a consultation with a RE (fertility doctor) and discuss options. Yoga, massage, and acupuncture have worked wonders for several ladies on this forum. Feel free to ask any questions. It seems very easy but it's a challenging process that may take a few tries.
Good luck!
I agree with Moe, no you do not have another 6 months to wait. Most clinics have an age cut off and some won't even let you do IUI if you're over 41/42. Keep in mind that things can look good on paper but your body may tell a whole different story. That's what happened to me. The doc basically ran every blood test known to mankind and I had the HSG & Sonohystagram and again looked good on paper. I wasted time & money doing 6 IUIs (I did get pregnant on the 3rd one but it sadly ended in a MC at 8 weeks). After I moved on to IVF this spring I found out I have an egg quality issue and it's purely due to age as I am healthy and have no other untreated medical issues. When I started the IUIs last year I was 39 and have since turned 40. The deal with egg quality is that you can't tell what the quality is unless you are doing IVF. I would suggest taking a few days to make sure this is really what you want to do and that you're not reacting because of the break up. If you feel it in your heart and know that this is for you, get to an RE and get your show on the road! Best of luck in your decision making!
I have to agree with both Moe and latebloomer. I'll be 37 next month and started this journey last October. Like Latebloomer, on paper everything looked great for me too and I shouldn't have any issues getting pregnant. I've had 5 failed IUI's and am moving on to IVF as well.
If you're ready to be a mom, then I say don't wait either. Everyone wants to think it will happen after the first or second try, but you don't know how long it will take you to get pregnant. I would also recommend going for IVF right off the bat if you can. For me, it would have saved so much money, emotions and time....but as they say, hindsight is 20/20.
Best of luck to you on your decision and journey to get pregnant.
I started 18 months ago on my 39th birthday. My numbers are awesome and I produce lots of eggs but I've had 10 failed IUIs and one miscarriage plus a failed IVF and it looks like my 2nd IVF won't happen due to some timing of my period (damn my body). At your age, skip IUI and go right to IVF
I'd say no. I started trying at 40 - very late- and had low ovarian reserve. Took 1.5 years to get pg on 5 IUI tries. Get a workup from a reproductive endocrinologist and see what your hormone levels are like. At 43 your chances are fairly low without IVF. Even with IVF, you may have to consider donor egg and donor sperm. Don't delay.
My insurance after a 2,600 deductable will only cover iui
Which seems crazy but it seems knowing this I wouldn't have a choice for ivf
unless I pay out of pocket
how the heck is all you single women affording it!? I'm struggeling to come up with the money up front