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IUI #4 and unusual 14 week wait
blkern23
Member Member
I had my IUI #4 today. I am hoping for success this time. However, I got news this week to make this much longer than just a 2ww. I haven't had a hard time getting pregnant and am hoping this cycle isn't any different than the past. I had 2 GREAT follicles this cycle. So maybe twins???
However, I found out I am a carrier to a chromosome disorder which can cause recurrent miscarriages. This is the answer to my past 3 miscarriages but it's hard news to digest. My RE suggests IVF with PGD which I can't even think about right now. I guess if this cycle doesn't work it will be something to consider.
But for now I wait for 2 weeks to find out if I'm pregnant and then another 12 weeks to know if the baby is healthy and I won't miscarry.
Anyone in their 2ww with me????
I'm praying for success this time around!
However, I found out I am a carrier to a chromosome disorder which can cause recurrent miscarriages. This is the answer to my past 3 miscarriages but it's hard news to digest. My RE suggests IVF with PGD which I can't even think about right now. I guess if this cycle doesn't work it will be something to consider.
But for now I wait for 2 weeks to find out if I'm pregnant and then another 12 weeks to know if the baby is healthy and I won't miscarry.
Anyone in their 2ww with me????
I'm praying for success this time around!
Comments
I know IVF is quite an intimidating option on the surface, but after you've done a few IUI's there is very little difference in cost. My doctor discussed PGD with me, but here in Canada it adds another $5,000 to the cost.
Let's pray that not only is this cycle a success, but you have two gifts to make it all worthwhile.
Tamara, I just turned 35 this summer. How are you doing??? You should be getting ready for your IVF cycle, right?
Tamara, I hope things are moving along for you. When will you be starting your cycle? Are you still on birth control?
Your daughter will be quite surprised but it's a great story you have to tell her! She will be proud of you. keep me posted!
Between me being a carrier of chromosomal problems and my low AMH it doesn't look promising to find many good eggs. I have looked into IVF-PGD where they would do genetic testing on the embryos. However it costs A LOT of money. I'm willing to spend some money to get this baby but it could spend all that money and may not have any embryos that are healthy. So to spend that money and have nothing to show for it scares me.
I was making phone calls this week to start the process of getting a home equity loan. Just saying that is crazy. I never thought I'd be doing anything that crazy. Everything up to this point, which hasn't been cheap, I've done from savings. I think I'm going to go the route of embryo adoption. It is a longer process so I want to get started as soon as possible. The first step to that is having a home study done for adoption. So that is my focus for now. It's been a busy week. Instead of resting after my D&E on Monday I spent the whole day researching all my options and calling all kinds of agencies and doctor's offices. I didn't slow down since then. I really can't wait to tell my daughter I'm pregnant. I've been waiting 2 years to tell her! There is a chance I'll have to tell her early with the embryo adoption because they may talk to her during the home study. I'm hoping not because I don't want her to be anticipating as much as I have been.
How many IVF transfers have you done so far? Do you get pregnant and then miscarry or do the killer cells prevent you from even getting pregnant? I've heard one other person dealing with this but never really understood how it worked. So what do you need to do differently this time than you did before? How many embryos do you implant each time? Are you doing FET's with embryos from past IVF's or do you need to retrieve more eggs each time for a fresh transfer? I'm sure you're excited for December to come. It sounds like this could finally be your baby.
I can't wait to hear good news for you! Do you know when in December yet or is it way too soon to know?
It took me a minute to find our thread!! Anyway the embryo adoption sounds interesting. I thought about it but doctors kept saying we aren't there yet so I just figured I'd cross that bridge if I have to! I've had 3 transfers so far (1st was 1 5 day blast-BFN; 2nd was another single 5 day blast-chemical; 3rd was two 3 day embies-chemical); I had a 4th cycle finally with the right protocol but didn't have any embryos make it to day 5. All 3 where I had the transfers the embies were from their own cycle and frozen (2 cycles we froze on day 5 and one was froze on day 1). Prior to IVF I had 6 IUIs (3 medicated & 3 unmedicated) and got pg on 3rd IUI w/injectibles but had MMC at 8 weeks; IUI #6 was ectopic. So I've had every result except for that healthy baby in the end!
With my 5th and final cycle I will have steroids that I will start about 3 weeks before the retrieval and then 3-5 days before the retrieval I will have intralipid IV infusion therapy (looks like milk in an IV!). Both of those down regulate things and are supposed to make the uterus a happy place for the embryos to implant and get comfy. So this will be a fresh cycle. With my history I usually only get one embryo but that's all I need as long as it's healthy! The doctor said I can't look at that because I've not ever had the right protocol so I'm looking forward and not backward! As far as the high NK cells, the doc says that basically the embryo tries to implant but then the cells attack it because they only recognize half of it (me but not the Donor Sperm). With my MMC I was scheduled for a D & C on a Monday but the miscarriage happened at home on a Saturday so I was not able to get it tested but my doc then said it was most likely egg quality which is common for my age. So many numbers, so many tests and so much confusion, it's a wonder we don't all end up on the crazy farm!
So right now the retrieval is tentatively set for 12/6 or 12/7 so the plan is set so now I wait! Keep me posted on the embryo adoption. You can always send me a PM. BTW where are you from? I'm in Vegas
I am so sorry to hear about your lost. I have read the threads and you seem to have rebounded with a great plan. You do have to ability to get pregnant and carry a child to term so it is a great option for you.
Please keep us updated.