Which do you prefer - Adult Photos or Childhood Photos?

Fairfax Cryobank
Administrator Senior Member
Just for Fun: What do you think?
Which photo would you prefer to have when selecting a donor; the childhood photo or the adult photo? Why do you prefer one over the other?
Which photo would you prefer to have when selecting a donor; the childhood photo or the adult photo? Why do you prefer one over the other?
Comments
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Defiantly the adult photo...
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Agreed, the adult photo was critical for me in making this decision. I subscribed to many different banks and found a number of donors that I liked at other locations but ultimately opted for a donor from Fairfax because I was able to view the adult photos.
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Definitely the adult ones. More for my daughter to see when she gets older. I know she'll be curious to see what she inherited from him.
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No question, an adult photo. We would have not selected a donor with just seeing the child photo. They change so much that the childhood photo doesn't seem to tell us too much (in our opinion).
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My daughter's donor did not have an adult photo and I'm ok with that
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Honestly, it didn't matter to us. We were more concerned about health information and character traits than looks. We didn't purchase the photos until after we were four months pregnant. I was pleasantly surprised with the donor's baby photo, but as I said- looks didn't matter so much as having a healthy baby. I wish our donor had more than just one photo though because I know our daughter might be curious when she gets older.
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For us it was adult photos, no doubt. Some of the childhood photos make it really hard to tell anything about the physical characteristics of a donor and I found several that had infant photos rather than childhood and those are the least helpful. Silhouettes are pretty helpful also but for us it came down to adult photos. Having a healthy baby is important to me, as I'm sure it is too all of us, but I know the Cryobank screens donor health with more scrutiny than any of us would when checking out potential baby daddies the "regular" way so I was confident in that aspect being as controlled as possible. I needed to have someone that looked as much like my husband as was possible.
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Once I am ready to make my final decision I prefer the adult photos. The childhood photos help with the initial screening.
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