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is 42 too old?
gabby
Junior Member
hi there,
I'm just wondering if there are any single women out there that are trying to have a baby with IUI and in there early 40's? anyone out there who have had any success with their own eggs and have tried IUI and have had a healthy baby?
I'm just wondering if there are any single women out there that are trying to have a baby with IUI and in there early 40's? anyone out there who have had any success with their own eggs and have tried IUI and have had a healthy baby?
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I'm 41 years old....using my own eggs (used Clomid on first cycle)...IUI (failed)...now my second attempt with clomid 50 mg....waiting to see if it'll work (2nd attempt). My doctor said don't be discouraged, b/c couples often take up to 4 times to get pregnant, but it's hard not to...I'm going to see if this second time will work with the IUI. If it doesn't, I'll have to evaluate if I want to keep trying the IUI or not...Good luck!!!!
I gave birth to my son at the age of 40 (almost 41). As I'm sure your doctor has or will discuss with you, risks do increase pretty rapidly with each additional year at our age, but if your heart wants to love a baby, then it's a risk worth taking! I actually lost a baby at the age of 39 to a chromosomal problem (trisomy 18) (not donor sperm - jerk ex-boyfriend sperm) but I knew that if I didn't try again I would regret it for the rest of my life. I had to at least try! And with my own egg and donor sperm from Fairfax, after just two rounds of IUI, I gave birth to my beautiful, healthy and joyous son in December of 2008.
My advice is to educate yourself on the real risks (they are real) and then follow your heart with open eyes!
Hugs,
Christena
I conceived at a month and a half after turning 40. I got pregnant on my second IUI attempt. My son was born 2 months before I turned 41. Go for it!
Give it a go! I conceived first time IUI with own eggs at 46yrs and now have a terrific toddler at 49 going on 50. No problems pregnancy or breast feeding. It's tiring but worth everything. Good Luck!
Well I sure hope 42 is not too old as I am currently 7 weeks pregnant with first child and am 41 years old (will give birth after turning 42). Got pregnant with own eggs and medicated IUI. Go for it... Didn't you hear? 40 is the new 20, and cellulite is the new tattoo!
Janet
By medicated, I meant injectables... I succeeded on my 7th IUI - so never give up! I tried a couple natural (unmedicated) IUI's which failed. Then I did 3 rounds on clomid which also didn't take. I got a new job which demanded a lot of traveling so I kinda took all of 2010 off and managed to lose 40 lbs during that time. In 2011, decided to try again with the injectables. 1st round with Follistim didn't take but the 2nd try with Bravelle did! And here I am today!
The truth is that I do wish I would have been more aggressive from the beginning - as in moved on to injectables much sooner. But alas, I am blessed to be where I am today, so I cannot complain. (I am sure losing the extra 40 lbs only helped me...)
Good luck to you all!
Janet
All women are different. I had heard horror stories about side effects on Clomid - mostly about being a raging witch while on them... and I seriously had none of that. And I didn't feel anything with the injectables either. Only with the HCG trigger shot. Boobs hurt quickly and they hurt badly...!!! Other than that, I really didn't feel any side effects. (I am also not feeling many symptoms now that I am pregnant. Except for the extreme fatigue and excessive urination, I don't feel much else. Yes, I know I should consider myself lucky not to be having morning sickness... but is it bad to wish for a little nausea so I know my little blueberry is ok in there..?!?!?)
Good luck to you. If you do need to go to injectables and your insurance doesn't cover the meds, see if your doctor provides information on overseas suppliers. Since I was paying for it all out-of-pocket, I got my meds from Europe. It's all the same stuff just MUCH cheaper...!!!
Good luck and stay in touch.
Janet
I wish you the best of luck in your quest for motherhood. Look all around you and you will see that more and more of us "seasoned" gals are getting pregnant. It's not just celebrities. :-)
Best of luck and if you need to chat or have further questions, feel free to contact me.
Janet
Maria
I am certainly no expert and I certainly wouldn't consider giving advice over a doctor's recommendation. When I took the Clomid, I did have to use a trigger shot. I was still checking for ovulation with the ovulation sticks and would go in when the time was right - when I was naturally ovulating. Although I have heard of others on Clomid who indeed use an HCG trigger shot.
Now, on the injectables, I think most women do get the trigger shot... something makes me believe they have to in order to time it right. My doctor explained it to me kinda like with the injectables, they were controlling what my body was doing and when it was to do it. Ya know...? There was no counting days from period... or peeing on ovulation sticks... it was injecting and measuring follicles... then trigger and see you in a day and a half!
If there are any medical people out there who may want to chime in or correct anything, please feel free. I am not a medical professional. Just a gal who got lucky on her 7th IUI...!!!
Maria, keep us posted on your IUI and hang in there in your 2WW. Will be sending positive thoughts and baby dust your way.
Janet
I had my iui (attempt #2) this morning! Now in the dreaded 2 ww. Wish me luck! Hope to be sharing good news soon.
Good luck! I will keep my fingers crossed for you during this 2WW...!! If you start going a little cuckoo during these 2 weeks, feel free to reach out. I've been through many... But hey, my successful IUI was done on a Sunday morning...!!! (Hang on to anything..!!)
Keep us posted and baby dust to you!
Janet
Today is 2 days post IUI...it's weird, I'm feeling crampy again (like I'm ovulating or cramping)...and having back pains. Is that normal? Or nothing? I'm getting paranoid. Today is day 17 of my cycle....I'm trying to relax and think about it too much. But I can't help it!
Maria, hang in there...!! As latebloomer suggested, try to distract your brain as much as possible... I know it's hard not to read EVERYTHING out there on the internet... but it'll make ya crazy...! I found I was super positive the first week. Very hopeful and always convinced "this time would take". By the time the 2nd week would roll around... it was a different story. I would get less confident and was always searching for signs of my period. (After 6 IUI's it was SO hard to stay positive that 2nd week.) On the last IUI, I was already planning on how many more vials to order and considering discussing back-to-back inseminations with my doctor. Luckily, all that thinking was for not!
Latebloomer, congratulations on your BFP! Keep us posted on your beta's, symptoms, etc. Oh, and I hate to break it to you.... but if you think you're gonna be feeling less tired any time soon, I think you may be in for a rude awakening... :P I am in my 9th week and I cannot seem to get enough sleep. Once I slept for almost 7 hours straight (without having to get up to pee....!!) and I thought I was in heaven... But when I got up after another couple of hours of sleep... My body was telling me I could use another 6 hrs, thankyouverymuch!
On the bright side, maybe you'll be lucky and not get morning sickness. I don't have any morning sickness... <knock on wood> but it has let me go a little cuckoo on the eating... NOT GOOD! Trying to get things under control now. No junk in the house allowed.
Keep us posted on your progress, wontcha?
Take care and baby dust to you all!
Janet
im trying to stay positive but don't want to be super excited and then be disappointed if its bfn. So I just try to stay calm.
that is awesome that you had a baby at 48!! How did you manage? did you use donor eggs?did you do IVF, natural or IUI?
can you give more details of your story?
are there more women out there who have had a child with their own eggs after the age of 42 and beyond?. I'm hitting 43 now. There has been a few stories of women having children after 42 on here but there are no details of how these women did it?
thanks to the women that have replied!:)
Moe
Joy, I'm at IUI # 5 and am on my 3rd donor. I hope this one works and sticks! Ladies congrats on your success.
Moe
A little late to this topic, but I conceived via IUI at 42 using my own egg... gave birth a month after I turned 43. Now am 44 but soon to be 45... would love to do it again, but would worry my healthy son might have to deal with an aging mom who needed help and a special needs brother/sister... and so I've decided not to try again. I have 2 high school friends who did the same - one had her first at 41 and her second a couple months after turning 43. The other was 42.5 when she gave birth...
All of us used our own eggs...
Mary
I would agree with everyone else who says it really depends on the woman. I am a huge fan of the motto: Age is a state of mind. But I'm also realistic enough to know that my body may not always adhere to that same motto.
I turned 41 in February and I'm six weeks, 5 days pregnant with donor 4031. When I did all my testing last year prior to starting the IUI procedures, I was just as concerned as you were. But everything came back great. Not only did I have healthy, viable eggs, but my FE said he normally saw numbers like that for someone in their mid-30s.
As for raising my child, I have no doubt that I'll be the young, hip mother I always imagined I'd be (state of mind); I'll simply have a little more life experience to help me along!
Good luck, Gabby!!!!
I'm now 55.....her best friends mom is 29, but you know.....it is what it is. I don't regret one second of it. When you want a baby.... nothing else matters. I wanted a baby so badly I couldn't see straight, so it was worth the one time I was mistaken for her grandma. (Her "HOT" grandma, I'm sure)
I just got on this site to see if there was any other information from any of her 1/2 siblings, but I was really surprised to see that that entire area is completely blank. No one has posted anything, which seems a little weird to me. I wish you the best of luck in this adventure....just know, that in the blink of an eye, you'll be dealing with the stuff I'm dealing with now.....and it's harder than I thought it would be.