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  • hopefulcharhopefulchar Senior Member Senior Member
    Sweatpea,

    I didn't realize you were halfway into your tww. I'm thinking positive thoughts for you. Please keep us all posted and I hope the next week flys by! I should be having my next iui on Friday possibly. Cheers to everybody else either waiting for a tww or in a tww. Can't wait to hear lots of bfp with the group in the lucky 5!!
  • Anne72Anne72 Senior Member Senior Member
    Well, did the 2nd IUI of this cycle this morning. 51% motility and 51MM sperm. Here's hoping they are good strong swimmers. Testing day is Thanksgiving. Praying for something to be really thankful for!
  • sweetpeasweetpea Member Member
    Wow, that's great! Do you mind sharing what donor you used?
  • Anne72Anne72 Senior Member Senior Member
    sweetpea wrote:
    Wow, that's great! Do you mind sharing what donor you used?

    I used 2829. I'm limited in donors since I have to use a CMV Negative donor and I want someone over 6' since I come from a tall family.
  • moewhitmoewhit Senior Member
    Just checking in on my TWW buddies...and sweetpea we are truly buddies both on our 5th IUI and this is day 10 past my IUI. I think you are at day 9?? My beta is scheduled for this Tuesday. Originally I was planning to POAS tomorrow but my past week has been hectic and I completly forgot to go to the dollar store to pick up a few HPT's. Oh, well I'm not really obsessing over testing before my beta but that could change at any minute...

    Maria, Lateboomer, Charlotte, and Anne72 you are all also in my thoughts! I'm sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers your way. Please check in with us so we can hear about your experiences.

    I'm still taking the Endometrium (progesterone suppositories) 100 mg twice a day. Trying to drink plenty of water....to counteract my morning travel mug of Pumpkin Spice coffee....YUMMY!!! Strangely this morning when I took that last gulp of coffee, I had a brief moment of BLAH...YUCK! Then it was gone...I don't drink soda or any sort of diet foods/sweetners so the coffee is my only "THING" which should be kept to under 3 cups per day. I think by the time I add creamer and sugar it doesn't even resemble coffee :roll:

    Yesterday, was my first acupuncture session in 9 days. I could tell the difference of skipping my sessions. I've been constipated and on edge. She placed pins on the paths that correspond to digestion and stress (nothing on the abdomen), then she placed the heat lamp over my feet which felt good. I went to sleep. Today, I was easy breezy plus it was FRIDAY and I was thankful that crappy week was behind me! Now my boobies are slightly enlarged and more sore than yesterday.

    Well I'm hoping that all is well with everyone during their waits. Good luck and remember to be encouraged ladies

    Moe!
  • bweaverbweaver Junior Member Junior Member
    Hi all! New to the forums, but needed to connect with people that might actually get what I'm going through. I'm 37, it's just me ( I spent way too many years with the wrong person and the last few years not really any prospects) and I do not have any children I had my 2nd ICI on the Nov 2nd so Wed will be my 2 weeks. I HATE THE 2 WEEKS. It's hard not to be preoccuppied. Although this time I am trying to stay away from all those "6 days before your first missed period" pregnancy test, just because they seem to be a roller coaster ride of emotions. Any ways when it didnt take last month I went through all these crazy thoughts - like what if never. My dr office only offered "The average for your age is 3 times" (of all the things in life that I want to be below average at -THIS IS ONE!!) IS that what they normally say 3 tries?
  • Anne72Anne72 Senior Member Senior Member
    I'm 39 and it took me 4 IUIs to get pregnant. Unfortunately, I lost the pregnancy at 7.5 weeks. I'm now in the tww of my 6th IUI. If this one doesn't work, then I will move onto injectibles (all my prior IUIs have been unmedicated)
  • Mikko77Mikko77 Member
    Hello Ladies.. wishing you all BABY DUST.. It will happen invision it, believe it, and recieve it!!

    This is my first IUI and I am on day 4 of my 2WW. I will say, I think about it but not as much as I thought I would. I pray I get preggo on the first shot.. however, I am aware of the stats of that happening so I just try to stay positive. I can't really say I am feeling anything out of my normal self. I always pee a lot so that was nothing new.. besides some spotting, cramping, and feelings of fullness on the day of the IUI I don't feel any other signs. Besides just two co-workers, my mom, and a close friend I haven't discussed the IUI with many people. I have to take into consideration it's still earlier on in the process so I think about it but then I tend to naturally do other things or just move fwd and before you know it the day has passed and your on to another day. We don't plan to test until Thanksgiving which would make a full 14 days which should be day # 26 of my cycle and I usually start my period on about the 28th day or at the lastest the 30th of my cycle. So the question is do you test at day 14 of your IUI (2ww) or just wait and see if you get your period?

    From what I understand most women, get a very light period because of the egg implanation in the uterus and then it stops .. because you are pregnant. So far everything is all well. We are blessed to be able to have a chance to start a family and no matter the outcome we will keep trying until it happens however, we are hopeful that we won't have to go through this process too many times.

    Continue to stay positive ladies .. the bundles of joy are coming your way. :D

    Take Care and Blessings!!
  • robinrobin Senior Member Senior Member
    Mikko,
    Sounds like you have the right attitude going into this. For me my doc asks us to wait 16 days past the trigger shot, so 15 days past iui. I have to admit this lasttime I tested at day 12 past the trigger. Usually I would wait but this last time I just couldn't wait and thatswhen I got my bfp!

    Don't focus onwhat is going on with your body cuz it will drivy you crazy each and every time! If you get a trigger shot that mimics a LOT of symptoms ;)

    Not everyone gets implantation bleeding.......I didn't and I am now 6 weeks 4 days pregnant

    Goodluck and lots of baby dust!

    Robin
  • sweetpeasweetpea Member Member
    Moe,
    That is so funny that you have a weakness for the Pumpkin Spice coffee. I am drinking one myself right now!
    I did POAS today and it was negative. My official two weeks is up on this Thursday, 11-17. Let us know how yours went today.
  • moewhitmoewhit Senior Member
    My beta was negative today. Sunday morning I took a HPT which also read BFN. So here we go again! Hope that the rest of my cycle buddies get their BFP's real soon!!
    Good luck ladies :)
    Moe!
  • AmirasmommyAmirasmommy Senior Member Senior Member
    Welcome me to the 2ww. I had my first IUI with donor 4120 yesterday. Pre wash numbers were 58 mil with 35% motility and post thaw were 32 mil with 47% motility. Decent numbers. Wish me luck!
  • maria2maria2 Senior Member Senior Member
    So I'm sorry to say that it was negative for me. I would have written sooner but I found out the morning (hours before I left for Cabo)...so needless to say, I was drinking it up in Cabo. I've been so sad and devastated because for one whole day, I felt pregnant. Now I'm pretty sure that I'm done...I'm giving myself a few months if I want to do another one, but I don't think so. I also didn't want to post because I don't want to be "debbie downer" for those who are in their TWW....

    i really hope someone gets a positive soon...I need to feel encouraged or maybe feel hope if I read that someone who has tried 4+ times has gotten the BFP! I'm such at odds with everything and have no idea what I do next...Sorry ladies...

    I'm so confused...I just can't afford IVF (I'm a social worker) and really don't know if I can afford another IUI (#5) because it'll end up being another $2300+ since my injectables aren't covered. I just wish I knew I'd get pregnant, then I'd pay for it...just got so devastated this time with the BFN...I'm still devastated and crying off and on...
  • bweaverbweaver Junior Member Junior Member
    Sorry about the negative. I'm so afraid to get excited- tomorrow is the last day of 2ww. Trying to convince myself that I'll be okay if it didnt take, just go another round
  • jl2011jl2011 Member Member
    Maria,

    I am so sorry. If you need to talk I am here. I know how disappointing it can be. :( We have been through it together since our first IUI early this year. Don't give up! I know it can be expensive. That's part of the reason I took a break the last two months. But, I just read Charlotte's response to your post under "anyone moving on to injectables" and I couldn't help but be motivated! It works sista! :D Unfortunately it has taken us quite a few rounds.
    Again, I am sorry for your disappointment but I really think you should switch donors to one with more pregnancies reported...maybe go with one a little cheaper??? I have no idea how much yours was but I went with one a little cheaper this time. Every little bit helps!

    Bweaver,

    Don't think that way! You have to be positive! For a while there I wouldn't allow myself to imagine I was pregnant or imagine it worked because I was afraid of being let down. I just didn't want to be disappointed even more if it didn't work. Well...here I am mid way through my 5th tww. I am being positive this time. I trust that this is eventually gonna work out and I am putting all my faith in God this time. He knows the desires of my heart and he knows I desire to be a mom and he is going to make that happen for me!

    Good luck to all ladies! Maria, let me know if you need anything girl! I'm here if you need to talk.
  • bweaverbweaver Junior Member Junior Member
    :( 2ww over and no need for bloodwork I started early this morning (and heavy). Looks like here we go again. 3rd times a charm , I hope
  • sweetpeasweetpea Member Member
    Well, we can all just be TWW buddies the next time! It always helps to read everyone's encouraging words on here. Wouldn't it be cool to have a reunion one day to meet with all of our babies!
  • maria2maria2 Senior Member Senior Member
    I'm sorry Moe! I really hope you get your BFP soon!!!

    Good luck Amirasmommy!

    Thank you Bweaver. I'm so sorry about this cycle...great attitude! Good luck!

    Thank you Jl2011!!! You are awesome! You are such great support. Thank you! Please keep us posted on your hopefully BFP!!!!!

    Sweetpea, you are so cute...it would be nice! :D
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    I'm on day 2 of my first ever 2ww. This is killing me. And to top it off I have a gala to go to tomorrow and I was really looking foward to having a fun let down night when I originally bought tickets a few months ago. But I am sure wine is not on the 2ww diet! ;) Trying not to constantly think about this wait constantly, but that is proving fairly difficult.
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    I just realized I post in single mothers....which I am not. Sorry ladies, I just saw a post about 2ww and responded out of desperation! I hope I did not intrude...
  • bweaverbweaver Junior Member Junior Member
    Thank you all for words of encouragement. I cant believe I didn't really check out this resource- would have made the last few months easier. I admire all of you- because God knows what a special woman it takes to do this and then to open up about it. My appt is Nov 26th to check folllies and do the ovidril that night, so I'll start my next 2ww Nov 28th ( Not that I'm counting-lol)
    Becky
  • robinrobin Senior Member Senior Member
    K&b
    A lot of us go back and forth between the forums here! Its all about supporting each other and sharing positive thoughts and info with each other. Feel free to post here again! The tww is the same for everyone, exciting and scary all at the same time.

    Sending lots of baby dust to you all
    Robin
  • hopefulcharhopefulchar Senior Member Senior Member
    WOOPS.. i guess i have been doing that too.

    I have to be honest though..i dont look at what forum a post is on. i respond if i feel connected to it. The TWO WEEK WAIT is something we all unfortunate can relate to.
  • littlepetelittlepete Member Member
    I am quickly approaching my 2WW and am thrilled to have found this forum! This is my first post and I attempted to post a new topic but it didn't show up.....not sure if it takes awhile or not so I thought I would get all of your opinion in case my new topic post is lost somewhere in space..........
    I have a history of an Ectopic Pregnancy and now a blocked Right tube. Last month, my lead follicle was from my Right ovary and they had me skip insemination then so as to not increase my chances of another Ectopic. I have to go in on Sunday for US to look at follicles and am sure that I am in the same boat again with lead follicle being on the Right side. I always get uncomfortable and can feel my oh so swollen ovaries-but primarily when it is on the Left side so I am sure they will want me to skip again. That will be the 2nd month not trying and taking medications.
    I am considering asking them to go ahead with the insemination, even if the lead follicles is on the Right side. Does anyone have experience with this, what would you do?
    Thanks!
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    Thank you all so much! Who knew14 days good drag on this long?!
    Thank you for your support! It is hard feeling alone in this....
    A good weekend to all!
    K
  • hopefulcharhopefulchar Senior Member Senior Member
    K and b

    What day are you on 3 rIght? I had two iuis this month. One on Thursday and one on Friday. So I am right behind you. If you need to talk at all I am here, we can be tww buddies!! The first iui is the hardest but you honestly need to breathe and just try not to think about it all the time. I am excited that my tww falls around thanksgiving because the time should pass faster. Try to go about your everyday life or this tww will be miserable. Good luck and lots of baby dust.
  • Anne72Anne72 Senior Member Senior Member
    My 6th tww ends on Thanksgiving Day. But I think I'm going to hold out on testing until the day after since I don't want to be sad if it doesn't work. Also, all my cycles to now have been unmedicated. Number 7, if necessary, will be on injectibles.
  • moewhitmoewhit Senior Member
    Good luck ladies!!! Wishing you all Turkey babies :P
  • jl2011jl2011 Member Member
    So ladies...

    I am nearing the end of my 2ww and I am so far beyond frustrated. I tested Sunday morning which was day 27....IUI was on day 16 so I tested a good 11 days after the IUI. It was negative. :cry:
    Yesterday (the day I tested)...I tested because I woke up at 6:30 with menstrual cramps. I never started. Today I woke up early with menstrual cramps...stayed home depressed. Boobs sore. Never started. In the past I have started ON day 28. Tomorrow is day 29. I feel like I am being teased. I know I am not pregnant. The test would have been positive right?

    I am just so discouraged and I feel like I am done. No more for me...put a fork in me. 5 times? This is crazy...
  • hopefulcharhopefulchar Senior Member Senior Member
    I am so sorry you are not feeling your best. Until AF shows you are still in this game. That's my thought. You tested a few days before your period was due and if you look at the back of the box it will tell you the number of pregnant women that do get a positive that many days early and it is some where around 75% depending in the brand.

    5 iuis sounds lie a lot but as somebody on their 8th I know it can happen. I would hate to see you give up so soon when the average number of try's is 6 to get a bfp!! Please try to get back to yourself. I am here for you as always!!!
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