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Currently in tww

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  • CorinneCorinne Junior Member Junior Member
    Thanks guys! Had the blood test yesterday and came back positive! Count was 378 so I go back Monday to check levels again.
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    I have taken a long break as you know after my missed miscarriage. I am thinking about trying again next month depending on how things go. I have an appt with my RE April 7 to update her on my plans and find out what she suggests. I am depending if I should try this cycle medicated or try a natural cycle. My first try that I did have success was a natural unmedicated cycle but I feel like it worked out because I had just gotten off birth control pills. So fingers crossed and I feel some good news to go forward with my IUI in April. You're always in my thoughts and prayers and I continue to look forward to updates. Thanks for sharing your story and giving us all hopes. xoxo
    POT03005 wrote: »
    Thanks Dimples. how is your process going?
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    Congrats Corinne and Good Luck tomorrow. I will look forward to updates. xoxo
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    Hi ladies. I haven't written in here since 2012, which is when after 6 IUIs (5 with one donor, switch at 6) we were successful. We were pregnant with twins, lost one at 8 weeks, and delivered our precious girl Dec 2012. She is 3 now and we are trying for a second (and last!). We had our 2nd IUI this month, and I got a positive HPT Sunday. Beta today (13 days post IUI) was 48.6. Next beta Wednesday. I'm a wreck. With our daughter it was 286 at 15 days pIUI. I'm so scared this one won't stick and just need a place to vent to those who understand!!
  • JDumanz44JDumanz44 Member Member
    Hi k&b,
    I'm currently in TWW and I am so excited for you that you received a positive HPT!!! Please keep me posted! Good luck to you!! :)
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    Thank you! My beta tripled from Monday to Wednesday. My dr said now it's just a matter of waiting...ultrasound April 12. I'm on progesterone, so have to keep that up and they are monitoring my thyroid...but I'm feeling better about everything.
  • JDumanz44JDumanz44 Member Member
    GREAT!! Good luck with the ultrasound :) I hope everything continues to progress ;)
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    Ultrasound went pretty good. Everything is measuring right, heartbeat was 132 and steady. My ovaries are swollen still, with a few cysts, which is par for the course for me. There was a small ruptured blood vessel, which had already clotted. She said it would either absorb into my body, or come out as spotting. She wasn't concerned at all, but of course it scared me. Back next week for a follow up, then to my OB on week 9!
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    Any news on your side J??
  • JDumanz44JDumanz44 Member Member
    I can understand how that would scare you... it's so nerve-wrecking, this entire process! I am so glad that everything seems to be going great though - as far as measurement and heartbeat :) How far along are you right now?

    I had THREE mature follicles last month, the sperm was GREAT - 32 million, 3+ - 4 motility (they said 4 was the best)... so I felt like it was going to happen! I was even concerned about triplets, lol.. and I really do think I conceived, I just think there was an implantation problem. I was getting some major symptoms... either I am really in tune with my body or my mind is playing tricks. Anyway, I was SHOCKED when the pregnancy test came back negative. I was sure that I was pregnant. The morning prior to my test, I was up at 4am in the bathroom with AWFUL...excruciating pains... that worried me. I think that's when my body rejected the embryo(s)... but then again, maybe it had nothing to do with that. My doctor sent me for a blood test (pregnancy) and it came back negative.

    I am going for another IUI tomorrow... yesterday I had one follicle measuring at 22mm and another one at 15mm... she said the one at 15mm would likely not grow anymore. I am nervous that the 22mm will be too big by tomorrow to be viable.. I read that anything between 18mm and 25mm is ideal... I'm going crazy over here. My anxiety is building up and I can't even take my anxiety medication (I went off of it due to trying to conceive). I triggered last night at 7:30pm and my appointment is tomorrow at 7:30am. AHHH! Fingers crossed!!!
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    Thank you, I just want to get to that 12 weeks!! I am 7w1d today.
    The cycle before this was very similar to yours. I swear I conceived. But even on progesterone my cycle came 3 days early. That has NEVER happened on a medicated cycle. And I was in miserable pain. I truly believe my body rejected that pregnancy.
    For this last (and successful IUI) I had to follies. One was 22, one was 16. I only had 8 million sperm, as compared to 32 million the last time! I probably only had the one egg, since I triggered the night that we saw the 22mm one, and it worked out great!
    I hear you on the anxiety. I fully gave in to pre-conceiving behavior and had wine and a bath the night before my IUI. I just couldn't relax at all, and I know the stress doesn't help things.
    I had much fewer symptoms with this round, but I just "felt" it had worked. I even had someone tell me a week after the IUI that I was "glowing". Lol. Ill be thinking about you, keep me posted!
  • JDumanz44JDumanz44 Member Member
    That gives me a lot of hope! Wow, what a similar situation it seems!!

    I was wrong, the follicle on my left size measured 12mm today, I don't know where I got 15mm from. The other one on my right grew to 25.4mm. She said it looked perfect and my lining was measuring at like 10... sperm count was 20 million and I know I'm about to ovulate (I can feel it and it should happen by 3:30pm EST today, lol). I even laughed at myself during the IUI today.. I was thinking about how my feet were cold and how I had to get them warm (have you ever heard of that...?) so that my uterus would be warm, lol. Then when I got to work I was eating some of the pineapple I cut and when I reached the core, I said out loud "I really have to eat this??" and started poking my finger at it... lol it was as hard as a rock, I'm surprised I didn't chip a tooth bahahahaa. Supposedly the pineapple core is supposed to help with implantation? Sigh... who knows, lol, worth a try! These next two weeks are going to DRAG.

    So, you have about another month (ish)... I can understand why you'd be so nervous, but it seems like everything is going GREAT!!! :) Keep me posted.. I really hope everything continues to progress as it seems it will!
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    So how did the IUI go?? How are you feeling?

    JDumanz44 wrote: »
    I can understand how that would scare you... it's so nerve-wrecking, this entire process! I am so glad that everything seems to be going great though - as far as measurement and heartbeat :) How far along are you right now?

    I had THREE mature follicles last month, the sperm was GREAT - 32 million, 3+ - 4 motility (they said 4 was the best)... so I felt like it was going to happen! I was even concerned about triplets, lol.. and I really do think I conceived, I just think there was an implantation problem. I was getting some major symptoms... either I am really in tune with my body or my mind is playing tricks. Anyway, I was SHOCKED when the pregnancy test came back negative. I was sure that I was pregnant. The morning prior to my test, I was up at 4am in the bathroom with AWFUL...excruciating pains... that worried me. I think that's when my body rejected the embryo(s)... but then again, maybe it had nothing to do with that. My doctor sent me for a blood test (pregnancy) and it came back negative.

    I am going for another IUI tomorrow... yesterday I had one follicle measuring at 22mm and another one at 15mm... she said the one at 15mm would likely not grow anymore. I am nervous that the 22mm will be too big by tomorrow to be viable.. I read that anything between 18mm and 25mm is ideal... I'm going crazy over here. My anxiety is building up and I can't even take my anxiety medication (I went off of it due to trying to conceive). I triggered last night at 7:30pm and my appointment is tomorrow at 7:30am. AHHH! Fingers crossed!!!
  • JDumanz44JDumanz44 Member Member
    Hey... it went well. I honestly felt as I usually do up until this morning. I feel so incredibly sick but I am sure it has nothing to do with that... I think it's because I'm taking Endometrin and from what I've read, the side effects can include headaches and nausea? I have both really bad today. I don't even know how I'm going to make it through work (lol, yes, I am writing from work). I thought maybe the headache could've been from the lack of caffeine (I drink very little caffeine now) so my husband bought me a coffee this morning but I'm so nauseated that I can't even drink it. Were you on Endometrin by any chance? I guess I'm wondering how long these side effects will last. I mean, if it works it'll be worth it but omigosh I just want to go home and sleep.

    How are you feeling??
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    Well just an update for anyone who may or may not know my story. I made the decision dec 2014 that I wanted to be SMBC. I went through the whole process to make sure I was fertility and able to attempt to me a mother. On August 6 I went in for my first u medicated iui and to my amazement on August 20 I received the best news ever....I was pregnant. I went in to see my RE and received weekly sonos and heard my baby's heartbeat twice. On October 6 I went in to meet my OB/GYN and received the worst news ever....my baby's heartbeat was no longer beating. On October 8 I had a D&C to remove my baby because I had no symptoms of a miscarriage and couldn't bare to take medication to force the miscarriage. Well after several months of grieving I finally feel ready to attempt again. I decided to take clomid this cycle. I go in on Friday the 22nd to find out if I have no more than 2-3 mature follicles to continue with this cycle. I am hoping for a success this cycle and for a successful pregnancy and at the end a healthy baby or 2.

    continued success and love to all the beautiful people on here trying to become parents.
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    Well just an update for anyone who may or may not know my story. I made the decision dec 2014 that I wanted to be SMBC. I went through the whole process to make sure I was fertility and able to attempt to me a mother. On August 6 I went in for my first u medicated iui and to my amazement on August 20 I received the best news ever....I was pregnant. I went in to see my RE and received weekly sonos and heard my baby's heartbeat twice. On October 6 I went in to meet my OB/GYN and received the worst news ever....my baby's heartbeat was no longer beating. On October 8 I had a D&C to remove my baby because I had no symptoms of a miscarriage and couldn't bare to take medication to force the miscarriage. Well after several months of grieving I finally feel ready to attempt again. I decided to take clomid this cycle. I go in on Friday the 22nd to find out if I have no more than 2-3 mature follicles to continue with this cycle. I am hoping for a success this cycle and for a successful pregnancy and at the end a healthy baby or 2.

    continued success and love to all the beautiful people on here trying to become parents.
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    How's everything going Corrine? any updates??
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    Hey Pot, how is everything going? any updates?
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    hey Congrats K&B. such beautiful news. I love hearing about success...xoxo
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    Wow dimples, what a terrible thing to have to go through. I hope you have quick success this one again! And that your behave a healthy full term pregnancy!
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    J,
    Yes, I'm on progesterone. In fact, today is my last day of being on them provided my ultrasound goes well. It has given me the worst side effects! Bloating, nausea, headaches etc. It is not a fun med to be on for sure. And by the time you get to come off of it, you are pregnant and the symptoms are there from baby!!
    I'm super tired, nauseous etc. I have an other ultrasound today. Provided everything looks good, I will move on to my OB, and see her next week! I'll let you know!
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    2nd ultrasound today. Everything looked good. Heart rate 174! I move on to OB next week!!
  • JDumanz44JDumanz44 Member Member
    k&b- THAT IS GREAT NEWS!! So happy for you :) Keep us posted!!! :)
  • POT03005POT03005 Senior Member Senior Member
    C-section is scheduled in three weeks. All in all things are going well. It's tiring at this point but after what happened last year I will take it for sure. All three babies are doing well and have crossed the three lb threshold at this point. Here's hoping they hold out another three weeks.

    How are you doing dimples?
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    YAY!!!!! that's soooo exciting and makes me soooo happy to hear Pot. I can't wait to hear the announcement that they are here but I'm sure that will take some time because 3 little ones at once are going to keep you very busy. in a great way of course. Much love and success on your delivery.

    I'm doing fine. I decided to try again this month. I also decided to try a cycle on clomid on days 3-7. let's see how this works out. I'm keeping my faith and hope that I will be successful again and make it to full term this time around. thanks for sharing your story and keeping me updated and checking in. I appreciate it more than you know and it's helped me through this process. I love hearing everyone's stories and know that I am not alone.

    xoxo


    POT03005 wrote: »
    C-section is scheduled in three weeks. All in all things are going well. It's tiring at this point but after what happened last year I will take it for sure. All three babies are doing well and have crossed the three lb threshold at this point. Here's hoping they hold out another three weeks.

    How are you doing dimples?
  • POT03005POT03005 Senior Member Senior Member
    It happens. It will happen. That would be my advise to all of you trying. Persevere.

    I got pregnant in 2014 after 4 rounds of IUI (three unmedicated and one medicated) and was due to deliver 4/30/2015- a little boy we named Thatcher. He ended up coming on 2/8/2015 and was stillborn. The unimaginable... I delivered him at 28w3days.

    Spent the next 5 months in intensive therapy to deal with my anger and issues over losing a child. Did three more rounds of IUI (all medicated) and ended up getting pregnant with triplets. Due to a health issue that they learned I had, which is what killed my son, the RE, two MFM's, and two OB's told us we needed to reduce the pregnancy that I had a snowballs chance in hell of making it with three. That it would be a tough road to make it with one. WE proceeded against medical advise and here I sit now. a few days shy of 32 weeks (which was the magic number) and things are going well so far. Anything could still happen, but for now we have made it much much farther than any medical professional ever said was possible and sometime within the next three weeks (C-section scheduled for 5/18) but they could come at any point now... we hope to be holding three, living, breathing, miracles.

    Don't let anyone tell you it cannot be done. Listen to yourself, your spouse, and your body and NEVER GIVE UP HOPE ladies.
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    thank you for those kind words of faith and hope. I'm trying to stay positive. on Friday cd10 my follicles were measuring 12mm. I began opk testing on Saturday as instructed cd11. today (4/25) cd 13 I got a positive opk around 12pm. I have an appt tomorrow (4/26) at 645am for my IUI. originally it was to recheck follicle growth but I'm hoping I will be ovulating and have success again this time around. I'm so nervous and scared but hopeful. constantly praying and knowing that my angel up in heaven is looking down on me.

    POT03005 wrote: »
    It happens. It will happen. That would be my advise to all of you trying. Persevere.

    I got pregnant in 2014 after 4 rounds of IUI (three unmedicated and one medicated) and was due to deliver 4/30/2015- a little boy we named Thatcher. He ended up coming on 2/8/2015 and was stillborn. The unimaginable... I delivered him at 28w3days.

    Spent the next 5 months in intensive therapy to deal with my anger and issues over losing a child. Did three more rounds of IUI (all medicated) and ended up getting pregnant with triplets. Due to a health issue that they learned I had, which is what killed my son, the RE, two MFM's, and two OB's told us we needed to reduce the pregnancy that I had a snowballs chance in hell of making it with three. That it would be a tough road to make it with one. WE proceeded against medical advise and here I sit now. a few days shy of 32 weeks (which was the magic number) and things are going well so far. Anything could still happen, but for now we have made it much much farther than any medical professional ever said was possible and sometime within the next three weeks (C-section scheduled for 5/18) but they could come at any point now... we hope to be holding three, living, breathing, miracles.

    Don't let anyone tell you it cannot be done. Listen to yourself, your spouse, and your body and NEVER GIVE UP HOPE ladies.
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    and the 2ww begins...I hope I timed everything just right....this time around. I go in for my pregnancy test on 5/10, which is a day after my grandmother's birthday. I'm hoping she's looking down on me from heaven and sends some good vibes and news for a successful pregnancy. here's to wishful thinking and greats eggs and swimmers and lots and lots of baby dust. ����❤️��✨
  • k&bk&b Senior Member Senior Member
    I will be hoping and praying for success for you dimples!!
    Pot, I can't wait to hear about the healthy birth of your three perfect babies!!
    J, how are you hangout by in? Are you going to do an HPT?
    We had our 9 week ultrasound and all looks good. Strong heartbeat of 174 and good growth. 3 more weeks until I will feel confident enough to tell the world!
  • ElaineElaine Member Member
    thank you so much k&b. Congrats again and it must be so amazing and exciting to hear your little one's heartbeat. best of luck always ❤️
    k&b wrote: »
    I will be hoping and praying for success for you dimples!!
    Pot, I can't wait to hear about the healthy birth of your three perfect babies!!
    J, how are you hangout by in? Are you going to do an HPT?
    We had our 9 week ultrasound and all looks good. Strong heartbeat of 174 and good growth. 3 more weeks until I will feel confident enough to tell the world!
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